Hello!!! And welcome to Madding Slowly. How are you doing? Well, I honestly have had better days, but yeah, it's okay. So february the month of love, and especially when we're just one day away from the 14th.
In my school, we celebrated valentines day today. It was good, but what in the actual fuck is up with couples? I have two great examples, so I have this friend named Dylan, he has this girlfriend, and well, until today, I saw something wrong about it. I know that when you're in love, you're blind. Believe me, I've been in that situation. But what happened is that we had this disco and she broke up with him, he was crying in the class just for them to be posting on insta storys I LOVE YOUU, MY WOMAN, and you know that type of stuff. Like, wtf didn't you broke up with him for a reason? Like I had my relationship and have watched other relationships, and the problems just don't disappear out of thin air. You're literally playing with the other person's feelings; you're supposed to care about them. And yeah, I am not them, but I have another example.
There's this other couple that has gotten back together three times that I have knowledge of. I was close with the boy, but let's just say a lot of stuff happened, and now the girlfriend hates me, and well, I lost a friendship, so I'm not very fond of her. So I, the person who doesn't get into a lot of gossip and really doesn't care has known of three breakups at least in a year, for me, that is not love. Trust me when I love, I care, and I know my feelings. I think that if you're going to break up with someone and get backtogether JUST DON'T BREAK UP AT ALL. Of course, if there is a problem, you should talk about it and discuss it. Arguments are fine; you can't always agree on everything, and you shouldn't. It's like living in a world without sad moments. How can you appreciate happiness without knowing pain? Tho I have to say people are different, and well, I am not everyone, and I don't know anything, it's just my opinion, although I just don't think you should be breaking up like how you change your clothes. As always, thank you for reading your dearest, not at all, Silvia.
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